The New Reality Show, 30/10/2021
Confidence – Topic for Oct 29, 2021 New Reality Show
1. Definitions – what is confidence? Feelings and Beliefs
- Lack of Confidence is caused by negative emotions of: FEAR, DOUBT
- Child has no protective filter ( Critical Function) until about age 12
- Therefore all opinions/information about self comes from others
- That information is stored in our unconscious mind
- That information forms our Identity – then Self-Esteem (or lack of)
- Those unexamined opinions about us stay with us all our lives
- What they are, is fixed; what they mean can be changed – Reframing
- Meaning is not IN an event; we Assign meaning to events
2. Developing confidence involves working with our beliefs, (about self and
others), trust (our self and others), our feelings: about reliance on others,
that we can do something well/succeed, being certain that something will
happen, that we will act properly
3. What are the Barriers to developing confidence: Insecurity, Self-distrust, Self-doubt
- Review concept of Parts – protective aspects of ourselves that have a good
intention, but sometimes select ways to achieve their goal that cause us
other problems. Dr. Milton Erickson working with obese women. My work
with woman who wanted to be a firefighter.
4. How do You Develop More Confidence? – Feeling
SAFE/PROTECTED, EMPOWERED, COMPETENT, BRAVE, IN CHARGE
OF YOU, WILLING TO MAKE MISTAKES/MAKE DECISIONS, STANDING
UP FOR YOUR OPINIONS, KNOWING WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND
- AFFORMATIONS – Noah St. John = Affirmations trigger the Critical
Function and destroy the likelihood of success. So use AFFORMATIONS –
Questions that assume your desired outcome.
- Moving in HOPE: from Wondering, to Wishing, to Thinking, to Believing, to
Knowing – using processes that remove DOUBT.
- Do you know someone (X) who has a quality you want for yourself? Then,
when faced with a decision, ask yourself, “What would X do in this
- Give your unconscious mind a visual picture (still or movie in your
imagination) of your desired quality, or outcome. Combine it with the strong
positive emotions that you feel when you experience this visual information.
Repeat this every day. You are installing a new behavior program in your
neurology. As soon as your unconscious is sure that you are serious, it will
work night and day to manifest this picture in your external reality.
How You Can Have More Self-Confidence
October 29th on The New Reality Show, join us as we talk about this vital topic.
--> Why do some people have solid self-confidence and others don’t?
--> How can you develop more confidence when you don’t know where to start?
--> Can you ever be over-confident?
Dr. Art Emrich and Dr. Christina Winsey will be answering these and other questions, and they will provide some practical ways to create more confidence in life and business situations where you’re not reaching your highest potential.
With more confidence you will speak clearly, communicate better and improve your career, leadership and personal relationships.
Tune in tonight, Friday, 10/29 at 9pm Eastern / 6pm Pacific at https://bbsradio.com/thenewrealityshow See you there 🙂
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