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Devon and Morgana have been celebrating midlife love by getting married 100 times at 100 countries.

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They believe grown up love gets better and for fun, especially for women. Everyone smarter wiser. Men are more relationship ready

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And if they're not, it's obvious forget anything. You were told about being too old or too late for loving adventure.

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Instead, get fresh new tips on dating relating and travel to exotic destinations and best of all call in for personal guidance grading Crazy Sexy midlife love in your life.

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Morgana Rae: Hello. Welcome. I'm worked on this is my husband Devin, and we are crazy sexy in midlife love. Today is the day before Thanksgiving. So it's like I think for everybody on planet Earth. This year Thanksgiving is different. It's weird.

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Morgana Rae: And I find that the more we lose the more I focus on gratitude.

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Morgana Rae: I've never, I think in my life been more focused on what I'm grateful for.

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Morgana Rae: Devin and I lost somebody really important to us, who was 

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Morgana Rae: part of our life at least three days a week every week for two years, and young and vibrant and funny and generous and and

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Morgana Rae: And it's a shock.

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Morgana Rae: I know Devin has had monumental amount of loss this year. This is the second person close to me and

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Morgana Rae: and this person was really like part of our life.

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Morgana Rae: My way of responding to a loss like that is to just be more grateful.

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Morgana Rae: More grateful to have known such a wonderful human being and received the gifts of we what he gave us and

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Morgana Rae: And grateful for all of our blessings in the moment. Like even if you have health challenges or relationship challenges or physical challenges, gratitude for

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Morgana Rae: Everything good because there's always something good. And sometimes that's hard to see, and then gratitude deep gratitude for all the good stuff that is coming in the future.

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Morgana Rae: And

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Morgana Rae: My poor husband, I'm not giving them any space to speak, how unusual is that

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Morgana Rae: One final thing that I

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Morgana Rae: Keep giving me the side I want one. One thing that I do want to say is, like I so I feel this. Just one.

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Morgana Rae: Please, I'm very I'm very liberal, but the idea with the term one. It's a very large one right its unity. So please so includes everything. But yeah, speaking of unity. It's like, I feel this just got wrenching rage.

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Morgana Rae: And grief and gratitude. At the same time, and I think it's really, really important to say that because there's so much

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Morgana Rae: Nonsense out there saying that you can't feel these opposing feelings simultaneously, that if you feel gratitude, you won't feel anger or you won't feel for, or you won't feel sad or you won't feel fear and that is completely not true.

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Morgana Rae: I mean, and none of it is bad or wrong feeling angry is not wrong feeling sad is not wrong grief is not wrong, it is

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Morgana Rae: Honestly,

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Morgana Rae: In this context, this is what love feels like like I really, really love this guy, and I'm furious that he's not with us.

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Devon go at you. What do you want to say.

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Morgana Rae: You want to chat about Phil, um, you know, what do I want to say. So, Phil. Phil. Phil was a guy Adams Phil Adams was a guy who is a sort of like a pioneer in the West Coast swing community.

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Morgana Rae: And probably like if you were to type in West Coast swing and like West Coast swing champion like on YouTube and watch these videos are these incredible dancers, you probably taught all of them.

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Morgana Rae: And it's kind of like a very well known thing. This isn't a surprise. This isn't like a debatable thing.

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Morgana Rae: He was just a guy who started doing this, like, you know, in teaching for 30 years or 40 years over 40 years he was a kid at child when he started teaching. Yeah. And so he and I would go have coffee and talk about our, our significant others.

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Morgana Rae: And just talk about life and talk about dance and talk about other stuff and you know obviously more kind of our fledgling dancers.

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Morgana Rae: But grew to love. Love it very quickly and I you know I mean for what it's worth. I mean, you know, Morgana has talked about her father and

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Morgana Rae: His all simers and one of the ways that you sort of stave off all simers is by dancing, which is why Devon came up with the idea of us taking dance classes. Right. And so we were going to do.

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Morgana Rae: You know, the idea is that when you do partner dancing. There's two things that are happening. There's a, there's sort of like the physicality part of it, you know.

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Morgana Rae: Moving you know your right foot in and your right foot out and then you shake it all about, so there's there's that element to it. But then there's sort of like specifically West Coast swing is sort of a dance where

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Morgana Rae: You are really connecting sort of like your brain and your physicality and because it's improvisational the concentration. It's like, it is a form of extreme meditation, you have to be so incredibly in the moment.

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Morgana Rae: Kind of outside of your head, because you don't know what's coming though. Well, the leader does he hopes.

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Morgana Rae: Who believe in that. You still have to do is if it's the if the follower doesn't do what the leaders expecting, then you have to shift on the fly and part. And by the way, the follower is supposed to add flourishes so that it is a dialogue.

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Morgana Rae: And the music music goes to a really deep part of the brain that Alzheimers doesn't touch. So it's like the music. The physicality. The focus and the concentration. I learned by accident. I think

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Morgana Rae: Six or seven years ago, visiting a friend in Northern California. And she said, hey, I want to go Waltz. And I was like, yeah, because we both she and I were both former ballerina. So we went to

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Morgana Rae: A waltz and Oakland, which is such an Oakland thing to do. And I met a Stanford physician who told me that partner dancing is the number one activity, bar none to

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Morgana Rae: prevent and reverse Alzheimer's and because my father had just been diagnosed, and we were seeing the effects of it. That was very, very high in my mind and

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Morgana Rae: One of the joys of midlife is you start to realize that everything we have is not permanent. I had a

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Morgana Rae: Early hinted that in 1983 November. So, November is a really significant month for me because I was hit by a car in front in a common almost died. And then you kind of forget because then you go

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Morgana Rae: You know 40 something years without any major catastrophe. But you start saying your parents and loved ones and family and friends start to get sick and die. And this is, you know, this is the time of life, where we start to realize how precious our little bit of time here is

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Morgana Rae: How how temporary. It is our own mortality and

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Morgana Rae: And health becomes really, really interesting.

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Morgana Rae: So partner dancing. Great for the brain. Great for the relationship, except that

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Morgana Rae: Learning to follow and learning to lead are really, really hard and and one of the great things about Phil Adams, who was the kindest most patient gentle teacher that I've ever seen.

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Morgana Rae: He wouldn't he we would do a private together, Devin and I with Phil and and and

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Morgana Rae: And Devin is so angry how I'm not following and I'm so angry at how Devon is not leading and and it was like Phil would find the problems that we didn't know about. And it was like couples therapy and then we'd be in sync with be dancing be so much better.

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Morgana Rae: And we'd be so much more in love. Because really, there's

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Morgana Rae: Very few feelings better than being that in sync. Like when you're dancing.

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Morgana Rae: You can talk to. Can I wasn't. No, I didn't. I better pounds. Yes, this is your last chance. Yes, thank you. So, so anyway, Phil and I would go have cups of coffee and talk about life. Lots of stuff on life and lots of bad things about philosophy and and just sort of

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Morgana Rae: So he was like a good friend. He was a good friend, and we were becoming buds and we talked on the phone and and

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Morgana Rae: You know, I, it's one of those things that, you know, in talking about dance. We had talked about its health benefits we talked about, sort of like

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Morgana Rae: The wellness. It gives because it's you know it's just it's aerobic exercise and it keeps your brain active and all that other stuff. And so, you know, we had talked about sort of that and I think

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Morgana Rae: I think he just assumed he'd be here for a really long time and there was no reason to, you know, I don't know if there was any reason to think otherwise. And so I think it's just one of those things, it's healthier lifestyle as any human being can

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Morgana Rae: I don't know if that's true, he

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Morgana Rae: Wasn't he was saying he made such, but he was physically active all the time he was had a great relationship happy and in love.

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Morgana Rae: And that is, we're not talking about. I'm just saying. I think if we're sitting here, he would probably go okay you know I haven't made the sainthood yet so I think

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Morgana Rae: I guess the bigger picture is here's a great guy. And one of the things that is absolutely true. And you know, I was discussing this with a houseguest we had here for the last couple weeks. We were just talking about sort of like

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Morgana Rae: There is this idea that energy is sort of a permanent right energy is sort of like this one thing that's a constant like something when something dies or when things change.

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Morgana Rae: The energy doesn't necessarily disappear. It's not when somebody passes that all of a sudden we have less energy

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Morgana Rae: We still have the same amount of energy. And so what ends up happening is we also have to understand that while that energy is permanent, that there is constant change mentors constant rebirth.

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Morgana Rae: And so, you know, I don't want to get too philosophical

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Morgana Rae: But if I were to get philosophical that I think part of the the lessons of life. Is that sort of impermanence to it that

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Morgana Rae: That you get to sort of like, you know, I guess I talked about, I've had a whole lot of people die this year people that I really cared about. And so a lot of it is none of it was coven related. And I think we've already had this sort of sad episode, we don't know that we

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Morgana Rae: Diagnose but heart attacks are about. I was I was hearing from a friend that about 20 to 30% of the mark Coleman and I think that's because coven counters want them to be counted. No.

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Morgana Rae: There's no reason for that, that nobody makes any more money from that. But we do know that coven attacks the heart and causes blood clot and that causes strokes and heart attacks. Right. I think it's a leap, because we don't have that. I don't think there's a need to be tested. So the

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Morgana Rae: Political subject that has nothing to do anything about politics is science, medicine, nothing about the show me the science and what you just said after the show. Oh, right.

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Morgana Rae: Right now, right. So, so anyway, getting back to fill

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Morgana Rae: He was used great guys. Great. Really good dancer. Oh, it's too talented dancer. Well, I mean, he's a he was a world champion. Yeah. And then his, his world champions. Yeah, and then

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Morgana Rae: Today's world champions. He was, he, he was the dance, Dad. And that's part of what hurt so much is even though he was very close to our age.

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Morgana Rae: He was my dad was my dance drill for like eight years. Um, he was my dance dad. He was like such a safe and and he was a good guy. He would bring snacks to dance class so that everybody could nosh

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Morgana Rae: You did all those kinds of things. Yes. And we went to his last dance class.

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Morgana Rae: That was in Whittier. You know, we had a ball and there was like a very few group of people and just to be safe. We all sort of like

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Morgana Rae: Danced and corners of the room and nobody knew about

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Morgana Rae: That that it was transmitted through breath so we didn't know how high risk, it was he also brought all these big jugs of hand sanitizer, because at that time we thought that's how it's transmitted. We were also like one of our last dance classes was first Saturday of

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Morgana Rae: March February. Oh, right.

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Morgana Rae: Well, we went know we went to the 40 year anniversary of him being a full time teacher

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Morgana Rae: And by the way, when he started teaching, he was a kid of 21 who had students who were in their 30s and 40s. So like these people

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Morgana Rae: There were there were hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people at the events and a lot of them were really old because they've been taking classes with Phil for 40 years

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Morgana Rae: And by the way, old people are the best dancers. They especially the guys. They just know how to lead. They're amazing.

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Morgana Rae: And so much love and so many of the people who like invented new ways of dancing and hybrids and and and

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Morgana Rae: Really you know where the leaders of West Coast swing and other variations on swing and other ballroom dances were there because everybody loved Phil and I knew was high risk because we were just

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Morgana Rae: Getting the news because it was, you know, the first weekend of March, I think it was like march 7 or eighth whatever the Saturday night was, um, but I couldn't not be there.

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Morgana Rae: I think that may be where I think I did have Colvin the first week of March, because I got exhausted and couldn't get out of bed. A week after that and then you followed suit. And we got better.

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Morgana Rae: Um, but he yeah just the impact that he the global impact and to be so loved is

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Morgana Rae: What a great life. What a great life and I'm grateful that I got to see that yeah I was honored to know him. And one of the things that we did talk when we talked about coven specifically he and I

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Morgana Rae: And hopefully we won't have to talk about code anymore because it's just

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Morgana Rae: I mean, I get it, I get it. But one of the things that he said was, I understand. I wear my mask. I'll wash my hands on through all the appropriate things but I refuse to live in fear and that's one of those things that's like, I think that's what you get with a certain amount of

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Morgana Rae: Age and maturity and I think it's just like an important thing. Like, yeah, okay, we're in this very challenging time. I understand that. And at the same time, we take our action and you know it's like I think for me the bigger picture is always

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Morgana Rae: You know, I get to take action and the universe gets to supply the results. Right. And sometimes, like I'm going to be super healthy

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Morgana Rae: And nobody knows what the response is going to be. I mean, I grew up seeing numerous things I just remember

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Morgana Rae: There was a sky pistol Pete maravich and Jim Fixx who are like these guys who are famous athletes and who both just had heart attacks and died when they were 14 young guys in shape and living healthy lice.

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Morgana Rae: healthy lifestyles and quickly. And so it's just that kind of thing. So, you know, we don't know how much kind of time we have, but i makes the time we have.

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Morgana Rae: So important. I think that's one of the reasons relationships get better at our age is because like I know that for me, starting in 40 I started just not having time for nonsense and that just becomes more and more true

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Morgana Rae: I interrupted you can take over again. I don't remember what I was saying, please go on. Well, yeah, you were talking about.

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Morgana Rae: We just don't know which is what makes it all so precious. So yeah, this Thanksgiving is different.

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Morgana Rae: I'm obviously I'm the one who takes the, the science stuff more seriously. I come from a family don't even think that's true I come, I come from a family of medical professionals and rocket scientists and all that kind of stuff. I love that stuff. I was a national merit.

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Morgana Rae: Scholar in math and science. When I was a kid.

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Morgana Rae: So we're going to have Thanksgiving tomorrow. Just us nobody coming over where you aren't going anywhere.

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Morgana Rae: I don't know that will have any traditional Thanksgiving food, but I think it will be one of our deepest sweetest thanksgivings because it's about the gratitude and and that to me is limitless.

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Morgana Rae: And it may be horrible for you, my husband. I'm so sorry for

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Morgana Rae: My it'll be fun. Light a candle will say a prayer will talk about gratitude, which is really what this is supposed to be about. Yeah, I think, I think to start our show today is about that idea.

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Morgana Rae: That, you know, we have this moment we have today, and we have each other and regardless of whether you know you're listening, what your situation is that

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Morgana Rae: You know you are cared for and loved and, you know, we have these opportunities that I think our chest

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Morgana Rae: You know, I think all the stuff that we're surrounded by personally is sort of like this is how

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Morgana Rae: We get our lessons and this is how we get to learn things like gratitude because I think gratitude for a lot of us is hard because it's easy.

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Morgana Rae: To focus on the thing, right. In other words, you go to a party and 39 people hug you, but that 14th person gave you the stink eye.

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Morgana Rae: Or didn't shake your hand or set some weird thing that just felt wrong and maybe it is wrong, but to devote my time to the one person when the other 39 are clearly on my team is that's the tricky part. Right. In other words, if I focus on that one person.

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Morgana Rae: Then I get to not be grateful for the things that I have in front of me and right there. I am grateful for the people who are not on my team, even though it stings, even though I want everybody to know Me and love Me and understand me and rah rah.

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Morgana Rae: Um, the people are not on my team don't belong on my team and they will be happier on somebody else's team and I will be happier with them on somebody else's team instead of

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Morgana Rae: draining my energy. And I think that's the way it's supposed to be. And we can and we can be kind to each other anyway.

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Morgana Rae: And I was thinking about this last night when I was thinking about today's show. So if you are in a happy relationship. Hallelujah. I think there's no greater treasure in the world. And if you're single, cuz I was single for 45 years with the, you know, little, little blips in between, um,

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Morgana Rae: I was aware even though I didn't want to be single, and I was lonely and it was a huge source of pain. There was, remember I told you I can feel things simultaneously. I also felt gratitude for

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Morgana Rae: Being able and that would relieve the pain of of just like when you're single you get to do anything you want to do.

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Morgana Rae: You don't need to ask permission. You get to have all the adventures and you get to steer your ship without having to check in with somebody else and that's a great experience to have to

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Morgana Rae: And have a lot of it so that when you are ready to be in a partnership you haven't missed out on anything and you don't have any like what ifs lingering around

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Morgana Rae: A dear friend of mine who also past few months ago. Ron would used to say, we can't control the land, but we can

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Morgana Rae: Check our sales and move our sales around to to move. And so that's one of those things that kind of always butchered that quote

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Morgana Rae: Run. What was the name of a Rolling Stone. Oh, yeah. But, but this is the better wrong okay issue with you and your friends, right. This was not. This is definitely not

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Morgana Rae: To be sure, but just like a, you know, I think that's what we get to do so. And this is one of those moments that

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Morgana Rae: We get to reflect and I think we get to take the good things that we got from the relationship and be better for it and then hopefully, remember this sky as a valuable person that he was, which I love.

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Morgana Rae: So I asked, Devon to pull out his magic tarot cards again tarot cards. Okay. Yes. And I did some shuffling before we signed up, even though you're not pulling your card shark shuffling is very impressive to me. Yeah, turns me on. I'm sure lines me that you have a bad boy past

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Morgana Rae: Just because I look like I've read your book. I know you're a bad guy, so I'll default thousand miles with my dad father's ashes. Yeah, no, that's true. That was a I was a curious.

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Morgana Rae: About my life so anyway about death and about death. It was actually about my father's death. And so he was he was a really a unique interesting guy. And so, anyway.

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Morgana Rae: You know, in general, again, I don't know. You know, sometimes we have time to ask

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Morgana Rae: If somebody has a specific question. We can do that for that person. We didn't do that. Yeah, I'm asking if you're on the website. You can see what our calling number I'm gonna because I don't, I can't remember. So the question.

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Morgana Rae: You know it's changed its multi dimensional. It's not just death card. You're gonna die. It doesn't work quite that way. Oh, so to call into the show to ask questions.

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Morgana Rae: One. Yeah, if you have something going on and you want to ask the cards or you want to ask about love, or you have an experience that you want to share the phone number to call us is 888627608 so if you're listening because we know a lot of you are listening right now.

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Morgana Rae: Producers been giving me the numbers. And I think we're getting like close to 20,000 listeners a month. Thank you. That's great. That's very exciting to us.

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Morgana Rae: So the number to call in. If you've got a question for the cards are for Devon, not for the cards because the cards are going to be read right now 8876008

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Morgana Rae: But if you are at home and you have a different question then apply that question to the past, present, future card.

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Morgana Rae: Is. And by the way, I do not read reversals. That's my personal preference or reversal is when you see a card upside down. That's why.

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Morgana Rae: That's great. And then we've got these 10 cups. They're all up in the sky. We've got children playing in the foreground. We have the parents, presumably

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Morgana Rae: Thank you for continuing. So if there is a downside to the car. There is certainly a again this is sort of a measure of abundance right the cups hold things and that's frequently like a wonderful thing.

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Morgana Rae: Tend to bring on sometimes wastefulness sometimes in impulsiveness perhaps in practicality. So it's like, oh, things are so good. I'll just buy more stuff because everything is so good. I'm feeling. Fantastic. It's time to really revel in our Black Friday sales.

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Morgana Rae: Well, we're storing up for winter. How about you and the grasshopper is like not me. I am going to dance in the sunlight. And so this is wonderful.

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Morgana Rae: Can we see this abundance as being too much of a good thing we can so we point that out. So, you know, in other words like in general, life is good for most of us, and that's a wonderful thing.

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Morgana Rae: Those are sort of like, shall we say much more about Maluku which we were just talking about this one is much more, a little bit more of a high minded sensibility to it. And if you notice, this is the six of wands and if you will notice that in each of the six of wands.

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Morgana Rae: What do we have here are our first card is the present, which is sort of like our

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Morgana Rae: Where the abundances I know a couple of weeks ago last time we're trying to refocus. Okay. It's not me, just show me my hand. That's interesting. Yeah, we are kind of blurry. Aren't we, yeah, no problem with the fancy camera there might be. Um, no. It'll snap back

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Morgana Rae: So a couple weeks ago when Devon was pulling cards. The, the future card was actually not one of the happier cards. That was the five of cups and

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Morgana Rae: For those of you who are not taro masters and memorize all that stuff, which, by the way, I'm not and i don't i know how to read cards. I come from generations of that. I don't know as much as Devon does

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Morgana Rae: But the five of cups, is this really sad devastated looking person in a black cape, who is mourning over three overturned cups in front of him.

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Morgana Rae: isn't looking at the two cups that are still up right and the pathway over the river to the castle and all the good stuff that's going on. So my invitation to you if you are going through stuff like we're going through stuff this week is also fine. Find the sweetness also find

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Morgana Rae: What is going well. What you do have, if you're sick. What, where are you not sick, you know it's it's if you are grieving. What about the people who are there. I mean, whatever the challenges.

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Morgana Rae: Find what you have, because that can lead you out of the dark place and moving forward and at the same time we honor the dark place.

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Morgana Rae: We're not kind of like snap out of it, don't feel it, because that's sick. That's, that's like really feel what you're feeling honor it you know feelings are there for a purpose and a positive purpose.

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Morgana Rae: And this is the time to find what to be thankful for. Because that's good for us as human beings to and there's so much if you are alive. Holy cow, that is that is a miracle in itself. And that's a very good place to start.

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Morgana Rae: Just a little. It's a little out of focus because Devon was holding the cards up and ruined everything. You really broke it, Devon. I know.

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Morgana Rae: Because I'm going to make a lot of calls. I'm just going to call up all kinds of friends and family.

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Morgana Rae: And say hello and wish them a great day and I probably, I don't think any of the calls will probably last more than a few minutes, but that's fine because then I'll be able to just kind of like

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Morgana Rae: You know, reach out and say hello. I got some really lovely text messages. I'm not a big fan of texting.

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Morgana Rae: But I haven't sort of a certain age group. Yeah, of a certain ironically the people who are all texting or of our vintage as well, but the the text messages were all just like, Hey, man. Love you. I hope you're great many blessings. Eat well

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Morgana Rae: And I like all that. So that's kind of what I wanted was sort of like an E well have gratitude sort of thing. What do you want to on Thai food tomorrow.

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Morgana Rae: Yeah, thank you. It'll be a tie tanks, giving the Titanic skimming yeah and it's delicious. I will probably maybe even ordered two entrees because I haven't had Thai food can quite a while.

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Morgana Rae: I don't even know if they're open least the place that we go to, I'm sure. I hope so. Well, we'll figure it out. We'll figure it out. My guess is it's like there is certainly a

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Morgana Rae: Kind of like, at least in the movies that there's always a Chinese food restaurant. But I don't know how the ties feel about that, whether or not they honor. Well, you know,

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Morgana Rae: We'll find out tomorrow we will find out tomorrow. So if it's not Thai food we can call after the show we could find out. That's the best thing to do is to check in with reality and find out if there's food to be

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Morgana Rae: So what are you going to be, what are you having gratitude for what is your plan for tomorrow. Well, my first gratitude always comes to you. I just am just so happy to be with you.

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Morgana Rae: That we have a home.

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Morgana Rae: Now that we have savings and security that we have health

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Morgana Rae: My beautiful family, my friends, I see things turning a corner in the world. I see you know things getting better things getting better health wise.

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Morgana Rae: Getting better with the economy with jobs getting better for a lot of people. I think it'll start slow, but I think it's going to really be building up over the next two years and I'm excited for that. So I'm actually extremely optimistic.

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Morgana Rae: I'm thrilled to be planning to go back to Bali to leave my retreat in June. Yeah. When the Show's over, I'm going to be communicating with my with the three razzi cottages resort to to arrange payment and conditions on my rooms.

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Morgana Rae: I know I gave them. We gave them a shout out last week, I just, I love them.

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Morgana Rae: And I'm grateful for my flexibility that

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Morgana Rae: I can pivot and I can change. So if tune doesn't work, then we'll change the month and we can do that and I'm grateful for that. There are plans for me to be coaching on the ground in China.

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Morgana Rae: Late next summer. Whoa, that's very exciting. And my grandmother was born and raised in China. So there's kind of a connection to that too. So

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Morgana Rae: I'm thrilled to just be home with Devon and do our own gratitude ritual and keep his parents safe, so that we can have many, many thanksgivings maybe we can have a Thanksgiving together in April, or whatever, it doesn't have to be tomorrow, just like

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Morgana Rae: We don't just have to save up all of our love and affection for Valentine's Day. We can make Thanksgiving valid and Valentine's Day and all those days every day because that makes life more fun.

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Morgana Rae: What it, what are you thinking right now. What am I thinking right now. Yeah, I was just checking the clock. So we have a few minutes left to go. So what are your pearls of wisdom.

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Morgana Rae: My pearls of wisdom for today is Go hug your family go. I mean, I know it's probably the wrong time to hug, but I still believe that if you can live in the same room. Nobody's under quarantine right but so if you

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Morgana Rae: Are until out. I mean, I think, again, is really what it is I'm just using the word has but really what I'm talking about is, like, just tell the people you know obviously with sort of like, you know, the death of our friend.

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Morgana Rae: A couple days ago, I think it's just one of those things, it's you know you. We're here, we're here on this ridiculous spinning globe for

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Morgana Rae: Really in the grand scheme of things, a very short amount of time and and maybe we've been here many generations and maybe this is our one shot. Either way, I don't know if we get to know what the answer is.

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Morgana Rae: And so I think we have this limited time. And so it's it's sort of like, Hey, be nice to each other because it is everybody's I think at the worst. I think it's just been a real challenging time

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Morgana Rae: Across the world you know well the entire changes like when we're young, time is interminable it just is so slow waiting to turn five

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Morgana Rae: Waiting to lose teeth and get teeth. It just went on forever and it speeds up at our age which actually makes everything you more valuable every experience more valuable. My grandmother before she died a couple of years ago.

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Morgana Rae: When one of her adopted multitude of of children and grandchildren.

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Morgana Rae: Because she just adopted like not formally but she would just meet somebody go your mind and that person belongs to her for the rest of her life and

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Morgana Rae: One of them was a childhood friend of mine who went to read the Tibetan Book of the Dead with her.

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Morgana Rae: And he was like, virtually in tears and her response at the end of that was That's bull. I don't know if I'm allowed to say the following word on this show. I'll have to check with our producers, so I'm not going to finish that, but she says

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Morgana Rae: She just essentially was saying and saltier terms that's malarkey. And she said life is about having experiences have lots and lots of experiences and she did. She lived one of the greatest lives any human being could live

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Morgana Rae: She's kind of my role model for life rather than living pretty well too. So living really really well. Well, I can't wait to travel again.

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Morgana Rae: Miss that because I have so much to say about travel but you know we're not quite there yet. So I'll have things to say about Bali in China.

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Morgana Rae: You know, let's, then I'm going to go back to Portugal. Yeah, well, we'll get there and it'll be there after all of this is over and and

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Morgana Rae: You know, we'll just until then we'll so keep safe and wait for vaccines to arrive. Well, like I was saying, you know, if you are happily in love. Hallelujah. That's the greatest thing in the world. And if you're not yet.

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Morgana Rae: Then enjoy everything you can about where you are just like we can't travel but I love and cherish being home with Devon poor trap person that he is

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Morgana Rae: And I do leave you alone for bits and pieces of time right brief, brief moment no most of the time. Yes, that's true, that's true. But, you know, just

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Morgana Rae: As much as you're capable of not to deny your experience in the moment as much as you can. Treasure, really, the better life experience. You'll have because whatever is going on now will change guaranteed.

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Morgana Rae: And some of those changes are shocking and not welcome and some of them are

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Morgana Rae: Unexpected and better than you ever imagined possible

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Morgana Rae: Yeah so. And by the way, we're thankful for you for spending the hour of your time with us. And you can always check us out more. I mean, I haven't seen our update from our. I don't know how much time we have left, right, they turned it off on us.

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Morgana Rae: Let us know if we need to be doing something different or or maybe what your take was like how how today's cards or today's show, related to you. We want to know, we find that interesting.

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Morgana Rae: Anything else. No, I think we're, you know, what are we doing we're hanging out here. Yeah. Got 60 seconds left to we can't be very efficient. I don't know if we are, yeah.

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Morgana Rae: So what are we going to do next week. Oh, next week up. Ooh, exciting. So we're going to have guests again next week. Yeah. Michael and Carly Michael Stratford and Carly Anderson.

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Morgana Rae: Yeah, yeah. They're wonderful and they're wise and they're going to have lots of really useful tips on life because that's what they do for a living is advise people and

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Morgana Rae: That's it. I think we're really like, you're done. Yeah, so many blessings and see you guys next week.

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