Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Information gleaned from the Akashic Records

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Some relationships are perceived as negative. Where can one find purpose in relationships such as this?

The individual that you eventually married was responding to a pre-birth plan between you and he in which he agreed to come and help you prepare yourself in a manner that you now perceive as negative. He is your soul partner. We do not mean a romantic partner, but rather he comes from a group of souls that you have partnered with over many lifetimes.

This is true of all souls. When one is ready to come into this lifetime there is a planning state where the soul that is ready to incarnate, sets up certain goals that is either learning truths of a spiritual nature, or else there are patterns that need to be changed from past negative thinking or actions. Some call this karma. We like to think of this as a soul facing past decisions and correcting them, because they no longer serve in this time construct.

He agreed to fulfill in a certain manner as a task master in the sense that he brought to the forefront certain behavioral patterns that you had chosen not to face in the past and clear, and reassemble into new thought patterns for your greater growth. Unfortunately, you see this as hatred on your part.

We simply mean that you viewed the experience as painful and he not treating you in a manner that was loving. In a sense that was an accurate appraisal. We would suggest that you take inventory of your relationship. It might be beneficial to write these events down on paper. Not necessarily the pain you felt when you were mistreated, but rather thought patterns that you held and thought patterns that you needed to face in the midst of the conflict between the two of you.

Think of some of the dialogue, even though painful, and go beyond the words and actions, but rather reflect on the issues. It is these issues that were resolved, or not resolved, as the basis of the teaching. Even though you might not want to think of this as learning, you did learn. If you think about it, you learned to love yourself. This took some time after the conflicts ended, but you now have an appraisal of yourself that is more uplifting than when you met him. You are more determined now to follow your goals. You understand kindness and softness. These things you want in your life now. You understand strife between two people and you created a desire for peace.

These are the sort of elements that you need to reflect upon. In a sense, the goals, attitudes and desires behind the events and words between the two of you were very helpful to you to develop your personality and your self respect. Do not concentrate upon the pain, but rather upon the results of what you discovered in the conflict between the two of you. Go beyond the words as we said. Search for the patterns and what you learned from the life with him.

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