Kindness in Everyday Life

I suppose you have wondered who this Eva Herr is so tonight I thought I’d share a little about me.

I am a woman who has experienced enlightenment. Enlightenment you say, what a wonderful thing.

Enlightenment though is a hard road to travel for the bumps in the road or like crevices of a canyon.

My first bump was the kidnapping of my child by my own mother.

My second bump came only two weeks later when my mother, attempting to control my life even further, saw that I lost my job.

My third bump was a week or so later when I found I was pregnant without a husband.

The third wasn’t so bad because I was at least in love.

But the fourth was the crevice that sucked me down. My father passed suddenly leaving me no one but a mother I now hated for taking my child.

Through these processes I learned the opportunity of forgiveness, the underlying goal in all of our lives. The nature of kindness is a product of forgiveness. But who would ever think of forgiveness as an opportunity?

Throughout my journey I have truly learned that we reap what we sow. I have learned that enlightenment can come without pain. I have learned that enlightenment comes with great gain.

Gains in my life, the lives of my friends, the lives of my loved ones and the lives of my enemies. For what I do for them I, I am doing for myself. We are all one people, so treat yourself right. Learn through my trials and spare yourself pain.

Kindness In Everyday Life

How many times have you seen a person who looks like they could use an act of random kindness in their lives?

How do you know, you say?

Look at their eyes. Do their eyes have a quickness about them? A look of disparity that can’t look you in the face?

Do you know what that is? It is starvation for love. Also pay attention to their shoulders, are they rounded forward? It is the weight of their world that they feel they have to carry alone.

Look at their hands are they clenching something or at something??

They are clenching at the life force that resides within them. Their light is dim because their vibration is low from negative thoughts.

What could you do though to fuel this person’s light?

Well for one you could acknowledge that they exist for they feel alone in the world.

You could also take $5 of your wallet to help with that grocery bill you see piled in a small stack in front of you. Its only a few things, because she only has a few dollars.

You see the kid riding his bike among the cars looking for something to steal?

He has no mentor. Is it possible for you to take him to the baseball field with your own child and show him some positive emotion?

Would it be possible for you to offer the beggar a meal and a bath, maybe even a job? You know which ones are safe and which ones are drug addicts. Just look at their eyes. Are they open with pity engrained in them or wide eyed with “look”. That “look” looking for the next opportunity to take advantage. The eyes are the key, they tell all.

The family you see on the way home who lives in squalor because they work hard but have little money. What can you do? You certainly can’t support them. But you can make sure a loaf of bread and a roast appears in their mailbox. For in all likelihood, it will be the day you choose to do it that will be the day they had no food for the evening meal. Synchronicities work miracles. Your thoughts tell you to do something exactly when someone needs it.

Your own child that gets burdened with your negative behavior because you’ve had a bad day. Spend time with that child who loves you so dearly instead of yelling out chores to do. The chores can wait. Negative energy is contagious and lack of kindness is negative energy.

If you will forget the bad day and simply be with that child who would love to have your attention, then you can avoid the fight you would otherwise have that would only increase the bad day you had earlier had.

Switch the energy by extending kindness and you will find your negative emotions will go by the wayside and your evening will change courses.

Now lets take someone with an illness what on earth can you do for them? You certainly can’t pay their medical bills, but you can sit at a hospice unit at the VA and listen to them talk about their fears of dying and the experiences in their lives. You can comfort them and exchange agape so they feel they are important and cared about, not just a burden to the world.

Feeling as if they are a burden to the world drains love from their heart and it hurts to live without love.

Now let’s talk about what we can do to save that starving relationship or marriage.

First of all, you must accept who your mate really is.

Then you must really tune in and interact with the person he/she really is, not the person you have made them into.

If you want to save a relationship like that, start with nurturing. Touch that person. Get close to that person emotionally and let that person know that you love them and want to be with them. You will be surprised what will happen if you practice extending kindness everyday.

Live in the moment with that person, not what was or might be. If your love is worth saving then change must occur.

Is one of you living more in physical reality than the other? Is one person focusing on those things of physical reality that cannot be taken with them at death? Has the other “found” himself and become literally a difference person over night? The enlightened person suddenly bringing in new friends and new thoughts?

Usually when this happens the mate that lives more in physical reality becomes threatened, threatened of what he/she doesn’t know. They probably wouldn’t recognize it to admit it to you. They just know their instinct is that of the threat of change.

The best thing to do if you really love this person who is rejecting the “new you” is to nurture them more than you had before so that they feel safe in the relationship.

Now let’s talk about field attractors and how they relate to kindness. Why field attractors? Because field attractors are necessary for physical reality to stick together and affects your life in many ways.

Field attractors actually are what brings to you the intent of your thought.

A prime example would be to imagine that you want to live in a certain place. A synchronicity happened and you were called out to do a good deed. If you do the good deed, you will find the place of your dreams. If you do not do the good deed, then you miss your paradise.

Another example would be a woman forgetting she had an appointment. A woman should do the right thing and pay for the appointment she missed or she could do the wrong thing and not pay for the time someone had set aside for her. She will either draw negative energy to her life or draw positive energy to her life, depending on the choice she makes. That is a field attractor as well.

Fears are what cause us to act unkind to begin with. We have fear we are late, we have fear a tangible item will disappear or get broken, we have fear of this or fear of that and so we attract things in our lives to play out those fears. Live in the moment and there are no fears. Experience what you are doing with passion and focus, even if it is only cutting grass or washing dishes. Maybe its just sitting outside and you focus on the beauty of the day instead of the job you lost.…. If you do that, you will not think of the fear of what was or might be, you will be thinking positive thoughts which will bring in positive occurrences in your life. Brooding over the lost job is living in the past and negative so it will bring negative occurrences into your life.

The intelligence of the human is far beyond what is used. People should be able to communicate together with the mind, listening, not talking all of the time. For you cannot talk and ‘listen’ at the same time.

Learn to think less and JUST BE more.

The mind has the access to the consciousness of all there is and has great potential. The mind determines what you do in physical reality and whether or not you behave with kindness or with disregard.

I believe the mind is contained in your auric field, is electromagnetic and extends several feet outside your body.

If you could see auric fields, and you can if you want, you would see a large being of color and vibrations. These vibrations are the key to kindness. If you will keep your body in the frequency of kindness… you know how it feels when you extend kindness. It feels good. That good feeling is a specific vibrational feeling that you can remember and access when you need to. No shaking nerves, no upset stomach.

Practicing kindness can also affect the heart and vessels because kindness is an aspect of love and love and hate issues are stored in the heart. Kindness can help keep your heart and arteries soft, instead of hard from feeling negative emotions and manifesting plaque.

If you practice agape everyday, it will eventually become your natural frequency. You will get used to the frequency naturally and will not have to “think” about having to perform kindnesses. You will do it naturally and your life will resonate accordingly.

Kindness is intent therefore kindness manifests when you think the thought that induces the action.

Kindness also helps the aging process slow down because if you feel good inside, your body does not deteriorate as quickly.

Raise your vibrational frequency and enhance your health by simply using kindness.

Whether you know it or not, others will begin to reciprocate the kindness to unknown others. It does not go unnoticed in the universe. Nothing goes unnoticed in the universe.

You raise not only your own consciousness, but that of the masses all at the same time. You promote peace throughout the world by simply practicing random acts of kindness. Imagine that.

Kindness in human reality is essential to life. Without kindness practiced on a regular basis, higher consciousness will never come.

You know, kindness or lack thereof, is not genetic, it is conditioned. It needs no special blood line or gene, all it takes is intent.

It takes no special raising or abuse, in fact to the contrary, it breeds further kindness.

Kindness stimulates motor neurons that cause you to smile. We all know how good it feels to smile and ‘REALLY’ mean it.

Kindness does all of these things for you and its totally free.

Kindness is the natural instinct of mankind without conditioning.

Is it not your instinct to save someone’s life if they are dying? Of course.

But do you help someone I need? Not always. Why don’t you help that someone in need? That person needs it more than the person dying because when you die you are safe in heaven. But when you are in need, you are in need here on earth. Where would you rather have assistance?

The population as a whole thinks kindness is great, but the population as a whole doesn’t practice it. They rely on someone else.

For example, if you are a mother whose child is being abused and you have no money, what do you do?

You cry out for help and your cries go unheard from those who are supposed to care. You search and search but the world is too busy to tend the needs of a child.

What could you do for this woman and child in need?

Help her for God’s sake. Don’t just feel badly for her.

Give her some money, or your time or your resources. It is a child you are ignoring in your busy world.

Who is more important in your God forsaken busy world? You with your papers and briefcases or the child who is miserable when she sees her father approaching?

She knows what he is going to do, but has no power to ward him off.
Help this mother and child, don’t let their cries go unheard.

What you don’t know is this woman has knocked on all doors and you are her last hope.

Give her the kindness you would hope to receive if you were in her shoes.

Her husband has money, but he gives her none. He drives a fancy sports car while she drives a heap.

He wears expensive clothes while his children have none.

He has a big name, but what is a name? He loves himself and he loves his fame. He loves his fans while his family goes unnoticed.

He pays his big lawyers while his kids eat beans. He abuses their mother and let’s her lie in his wake.

Be kind to this woman when she pleas for your help. This woman you see is me though you would never know it by the look on my face.

It’s me or your sister or maybe your mother.

Kindness is all it takes. Kindness by you to a family of three.

by Eva Herr